Staying Composed Under Pressure
Hey, team, happy Sunday!
Pressure reveals preparation — composure turns it into performance.
For Athletes: Playing Calm When the Moment Is Big
3 Ways to Stay Composed Under Pressure
Slow the moment down. One deep breath, one clear thought — calm creates clarity.
Anchor to your routine. Familiar actions tell your brain you’ve been here before.
Compete, don’t evaluate. Stop judging how it’s going and start executing what’s next.
2 Quotes to Remember
“Calm is not weakness — it’s control.”
Billie Jean King: “Pressure is a privilege. It only comes to those who earn it.”
1 Question to Reflect On
When pressure rises, what routine helps me return to calm the fastest?
For Parents: Being the Calm in the Environment
3 Ways to Support Composure
Control your own reactions. Your energy travels faster than your words.
Emphasize effort over outcome. Composure grows when fear of results shrinks.
Reinforce preparation. Remind them they’ve already done the work — now it’s time to trust it.
2 Quotes to Anchor You
“A calm presence builds confident competitors.”
“Pressure feels heavier when athletes think they’re carrying it alone.”
1 Question to Reflect On
Do my words before and during games create calm — or add tension?
For Coaches: Teaching Calm as a Competitive Skill
3 Ways to Build Composure Into Your Team
Practice under stress. Simulate pressure so calm becomes a trained response.
Model emotional control. Athletes copy how you handle officials, mistakes, and momentum swings.
Use simple cues. Short reminders like “breathe,” “next,” or “trust it” help athletes reset fast.
2 Quotes to Coach With
John Wooden: “Be quick, but don’t hurry.”
“Composure is a skill — and like any skill, it can be trained.”
1 Question to Reflect On
How am I helping my athletes practice calm before they’re tested by pressure?
Pressure isn’t the enemy. Panic is.
Calm minds make clear decisions — and clear decisions win games.
With you in the process,
David Lovell
Founder of the F.O.C.U.S. System | Mental Performance Coach
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