Bouncing Back from Errors Mid-Game

Hey, team, happy Sunday!

One mistake doesn’t define you — how you respond does.

For Athletes: Recovering Fast and Refocusing

3 Ways to Bounce Back Mid-Game

  1. Reset your body, not your thoughts. Take a deep breath, exhale tension, and get back in your stance.

  2. Shrink your focus. Forget the scoreboard — lock in on the next pitch, next play, next moment.

  3. Use your routine as a reset button. Wipe the dirt, fix your gloves, tap the plate — signal to yourself that you’ve moved on.

2 Quotes to Remember

  1. Derek Jeter: “You can’t let one mistake turn into two.”

  2. “The best players recover the fastest — not because they care less, but because they trust more.”

1 Question to Reflect On
What’s my personal reset move after a mistake?

For Parents: Teaching Resilience in Real Time

3 Ways to Respond After Your Athlete Makes a Mistake

  1. Stay neutral. Let them process it without seeing frustration or disappointment from you.

  2. Emphasize the bounce back. Ask later: “How did you respond?” — not “Why’d you mess up?”

  3. Praise recovery, not perfection. Growth shows in how quickly they reset.

2 Quotes to Anchor You

  1. “A strong mindset is built in the space between mistake and response.”

  2. John Wooden: “Things turn out best for those who make the best of the way things turn out.”

1 Question to Reflect On
After my athlete makes a mistake, do I react in a way that helps them move forward — or dwell on it longer?

For Coaches: Modeling Calm and Confidence

3 Ways to Coach Through Mistakes Mid-Game

  1. Be the calm in chaos. Your reaction teaches athletes how to emotionally regulate.

  2. Use short memory language. Say, “Next one,” or “We’re good” — quick, positive, forward-focused.

  3. Pull teachable moments later. Mid-game is for composure; post-game is for correction.

2 Quotes to Coach With

  1. Nick Saban: “Don’t waste a failure. Learn from it.”

  2. “The best coaches don’t prevent mistakes — they prepare athletes to respond to them.”

1 Question to Reflect On
How do I communicate composure when my team is struggling?

Mistakes are part of competition — but resilience is a skill.
The faster you reset, the faster you return to your best.

With you in the process,
David Lovell
Founder of the F.O.C.U.S. System | Mental Performance Coach

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