Staying Confident in a Slump
Hey, team, happy Sunday!
Confidence isn’t built on results — it’s built on belief.
For Athletes: Finding Confidence When Nothing’s Falling
3 Ways to Build Confidence in a Slump
Detach results from identity. You’re not your stats — you’re your habits, effort, and mindset.
Simplify your focus. Pick one thing to do well today — like breathing between pitches or attacking first strikes.
Visualize success daily. Your brain doesn’t know the difference between real and imagined reps — keep seeing yourself win.
2 Quotes to Remember
Derek Jeter: “You can’t get too high or too low. The key is to stay even.”
“Confidence is quiet. It’s built one small promise kept at a time.”
1 Question to Reflect On
If I wasn’t worried about results, how would I play differently today?
For Parents: Helping Without Adding Pressure
3 Ways to Support an Athlete in a Slump
Listen first. Sometimes they don’t need advice — they need space to process frustration.
Highlight effort. Reinforce controllables: body language, energy, and attitude.
Model steadiness. Stay patient — your calm becomes their compass.
2 Quotes to Anchor You
“Confidence is not thinking they will never fail — it’s knowing they’ll recover when they do.”
Carol Dweck: “Effort is what ignites ability and turns it into accomplishment.”
1 Question to Reflect On
Do my words make my athlete feel safe to fail — or afraid to?
For Coaches: Leading Through the Low Points
3 Ways to Coach Confidence Back Up
Catch them doing things right. Point out the small wins others overlook.
Give them manageable goals. Simplify success — one quality at-bat, one solid inning.
Stay consistent in tone. The player’s self-belief often mirrors yours.
2 Quotes to Coach With
Nick Saban: “Don’t let a failure define you — let it refine you.”
“Confidence grows where coaches stay steady.”
1 Question to Reflect On
How can I help athletes remember who they are — even when results say otherwise?
Slumps are temporary. Belief is permanent — if you keep choosing it.
With you in the process,
David Lovell
Founder of the F.O.C.U.S. System | Mental Performance Coach
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