Staying Confident in a Slump

Hey, team, happy Sunday!

Confidence isn’t built on results — it’s built on belief.

For Athletes: Finding Confidence When Nothing’s Falling

3 Ways to Build Confidence in a Slump

  1. Detach results from identity. You’re not your stats — you’re your habits, effort, and mindset.

  2. Simplify your focus. Pick one thing to do well today — like breathing between pitches or attacking first strikes.

  3. Visualize success daily. Your brain doesn’t know the difference between real and imagined reps — keep seeing yourself win.

2 Quotes to Remember

  1. Derek Jeter: “You can’t get too high or too low. The key is to stay even.”

  2. “Confidence is quiet. It’s built one small promise kept at a time.”

1 Question to Reflect On
If I wasn’t worried about results, how would I play differently today?

For Parents: Helping Without Adding Pressure

3 Ways to Support an Athlete in a Slump

  1. Listen first. Sometimes they don’t need advice — they need space to process frustration.

  2. Highlight effort. Reinforce controllables: body language, energy, and attitude.

  3. Model steadiness. Stay patient — your calm becomes their compass.

2 Quotes to Anchor You

  1. “Confidence is not thinking they will never fail — it’s knowing they’ll recover when they do.”

  2. Carol Dweck: “Effort is what ignites ability and turns it into accomplishment.”

1 Question to Reflect On
Do my words make my athlete feel safe to fail — or afraid to?

For Coaches: Leading Through the Low Points

3 Ways to Coach Confidence Back Up

  1. Catch them doing things right. Point out the small wins others overlook.

  2. Give them manageable goals. Simplify success — one quality at-bat, one solid inning.

  3. Stay consistent in tone. The player’s self-belief often mirrors yours.

2 Quotes to Coach With

  1. Nick Saban: “Don’t let a failure define you — let it refine you.”

  2. “Confidence grows where coaches stay steady.”

1 Question to Reflect On
How can I help athletes remember who they are — even when results say otherwise?

Slumps are temporary. Belief is permanent — if you keep choosing it.

With you in the process,
David Lovell
Founder of the F.O.C.U.S. System | Mental Performance Coach

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