Playing With Joy Again
Hey, team, happy Sunday!
Pressure steals it. Expectations crush it. But joy is the reason you started.
Table of Contents
⚾ For Athletes: Fall Back in Love With the Game
3 Ways to Reignite Your Joy
Reconnect with your “why.” Remember that younger version of you — the one who played just to play.
Do something fun on purpose. Trick plays, challenges, mini-games. Make space to smile.
Let go of perfect. Joy doesn’t live in fear. It lives in freedom.
2 Quotes to Remember
“Play like no one’s watching. Compete like everyone is counting on you.”
Naomi Osaka: “I just want to feel like I’m playing tennis because I enjoy the game.”
1 Question to Reflect On
If nobody tracked stats, awards, or rankings — would you still show up?
👨👩👧 For Parents: Joy Starts at Home
3 Ways to Help Your Athlete Love the Game Again
Laugh more. Critique less. Let sports be a place they associate with lightness — not just pressure.
Ask joy-based questions. “What made you smile today?” is just as important as “How’d you play?”
Protect their play. Make sure downtime, playfulness, and freedom aren’t always replaced by more work.
2 Quotes to Anchor You
“Your child’s confidence grows in the soil of joy.”
“Let them be kids. Even when they’re good enough to be pros.”
1 Question to Reflect On
Is your athlete playing to grow… or playing to survive expectations?
🧢 For Coaches: Build a Culture Where Joy Can Breathe
3 Coaching Shifts to Bring Back the Fun
Inject small fun drills. 5-minute challenges, trick shots, music breaks — joy improves focus, too.
Laugh with your team. Joy doesn’t mean you’re not serious — it means you're human.
Ask players what they love most. Then create more moments around those things.
2 Quotes to Coach With
“Joy creates energy. Energy creates consistency. Consistency builds greatness.”
Mike Candrea: “They don’t remember your words — they remember how they felt playing for you.”
1 Question to Reflect On
Are your players playing for fear of failure… or love of the game?
Joy isn’t a distraction.
It’s your edge.
It’s why you began.
It’s what keeps you going.
Let’s get back to loving it again.
With you in the process,
David Lovell
Founder of the F.O.C.U.S. System | Mental Performance Coach
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