Playing With Joy Again

Hey, team, happy Sunday!

Pressure steals it. Expectations crush it. But joy is the reason you started.

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⚾ For Athletes: Fall Back in Love With the Game

3 Ways to Reignite Your Joy

  1. Reconnect with your “why.” Remember that younger version of you — the one who played just to play.

  2. Do something fun on purpose. Trick plays, challenges, mini-games. Make space to smile.

  3. Let go of perfect. Joy doesn’t live in fear. It lives in freedom.

2 Quotes to Remember

  1. “Play like no one’s watching. Compete like everyone is counting on you.”

  2. Naomi Osaka: “I just want to feel like I’m playing tennis because I enjoy the game.”

1 Question to Reflect On
If nobody tracked stats, awards, or rankings — would you still show up?

👨‍👩‍👧 For Parents: Joy Starts at Home

3 Ways to Help Your Athlete Love the Game Again

  1. Laugh more. Critique less. Let sports be a place they associate with lightness — not just pressure.

  2. Ask joy-based questions. “What made you smile today?” is just as important as “How’d you play?”

  3. Protect their play. Make sure downtime, playfulness, and freedom aren’t always replaced by more work.

2 Quotes to Anchor You

  1. “Your child’s confidence grows in the soil of joy.”

  2. “Let them be kids. Even when they’re good enough to be pros.”

1 Question to Reflect On
Is your athlete playing to grow… or playing to survive expectations?

🧢 For Coaches: Build a Culture Where Joy Can Breathe

3 Coaching Shifts to Bring Back the Fun

  1. Inject small fun drills. 5-minute challenges, trick shots, music breaks — joy improves focus, too.

  2. Laugh with your team. Joy doesn’t mean you’re not serious — it means you're human.

  3. Ask players what they love most. Then create more moments around those things.

2 Quotes to Coach With

  1. “Joy creates energy. Energy creates consistency. Consistency builds greatness.”

  2. Mike Candrea: “They don’t remember your words — they remember how they felt playing for you.”

1 Question to Reflect On
Are your players playing for fear of failure… or love of the game?

Joy isn’t a distraction.
It’s your edge.
It’s why you began.
It’s what keeps you going.

Let’s get back to loving it again.

With you in the process,
David Lovell
Founder of the F.O.C.U.S. System | Mental Performance Coach

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