Building Confidence When You’re in a Slump
Hey, team, happy Sunday!
Confidence isn’t built by avoiding struggle — it’s built by how you respond to it.
Table of Contents
🎯 For Athletes: Confidence Is a Skill, Not a Feeling
3 Ways to Rebuild It During a Slump
Shrink your focus. Win the next drill, not the next game. Stack small wins daily.
Talk to yourself like a coach, not a critic. What would you say to a teammate in your shoes? Say it to yourself.
Watch your body language. Shoulders up. Chin high. Eyes forward. Confidence starts with posture.
2 Quotes to Fuel You
“Slumps are where champions sharpen their edge.”
Serena Williams: “You have to believe in yourself when no one else does — that’s what makes you a winner.”
1 Question to Reflect On
What’s one thing I can do today that my confident self would be proud of?
👨👩👧 For Parents: Support Their Struggle, Don’t Solve It
3 Ways to Help Your Athlete Regain Confidence
Validate their effort, not the result. Confidence grows when effort is acknowledged, even in failure.
Avoid overreacting to poor games. Stay steady — your calm is their anchor.
Encourage reflection, not rumination. Ask “What did you learn?” instead of “Why did that happen?”
2 Quotes to Anchor You
“Let your kid be bad at something on the way to being great at it.”
Carol Dweck: “Effort is what ignites ability and turns it into accomplishment.”
1 Question to Reflect On
Am I giving my athlete space to grow through the slump — or trying to rush their way out of it?
🧢 For Coaches: Lead with Belief
3 Ways to Build Up a Slumping Athlete
Point out the habits, not just the highlights. Celebrate how they show up, not just what they produce.
Pair them with a confident teammate. Confidence is contagious — put them in the right environment.
Remind them of who they are when they forget. Sometimes belief comes from someone lending theirs.
2 Quotes to Coach By
Nick Saban: “Mediocre people don’t like high-achievers, and high-achievers don’t like mediocre efforts.”
“Coaching isn’t just correcting mistakes — it’s restoring belief.”
1 Question to Reflect On
When an athlete struggles, do I lean in or pull back?
Confidence doesn’t disappear — it just gets buried.
Dig deep. Reconnect. Keep showing up.
With you in the process,
David Lovell
Founder of the F.O.C.U.S. System | Mental Performance Coach
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