Building Lifetime Leadership Skills

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Leadership isn't a title. It's how you show up when it matters most.

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🎯 For Athletes: Leading by Example

3 Ways to Lead Without Needing a "C" on Your Jersey

  1. Leadership starts with energy. Bring focus, effort, and a positive attitude every day — people follow energy before they follow words.

  2. Hold yourself to the highest standard — then lift others up without tearing them down.

  3. Be the first to practice, the last to leave, and the one who’s all-in even on the hard days.

2 Quotes to Remember

  1. John Wooden: "A leader’s most powerful ally is his or her own example."

  2. Simone Biles: "I'd rather regret the risks that didn’t work out than the chances I didn’t take at all."

1 Question to Reflect On
If a stranger watched you practice for one week, would they know you're a leader without you saying a word?

👨‍👩‍👧 For Parents: Raising Leaders, Not Just Players

3 Ways to Encourage Leadership at Home

  1. Ask questions that build self-awareness. ("What did you learn from today’s game?" vs. "Did you win?")

  2. Teach them to listen first, speak second. Great leaders understand before they command.

  3. Reward courage, even when it’s uncomfortable. Speaking up, taking responsibility, or helping a teammate is always worth celebrating.

2 Quotes to Guide You

  1. Brené Brown: "Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind."

  2. Lou Holtz: "Leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence — and making sure that impact lasts in your absence."

1 Question to Reflect On
How are you helping your child build the confidence to lead when it’s easier to stay silent?

🧢 For Coaches: Crafting Leaders Within Your Team

3 Ways to Develop Leadership in Athletes

  1. Give them responsibility early. Leadership skills are forged through action, not titles.

  2. Coach mistakes as learning opportunities, not personal flaws. Growth-minded leaders aren’t afraid to fail.

  3. Create leadership opportunities for everyone, not just your most talented players. Quiet leaders often emerge when given the chance.

2 Quotes to Keep Top of Mind

  1. Pat Summitt: "Responsibility equals accountability equals ownership. And a sense of ownership is the most powerful weapon a team or organization can have."

  2. Tony Dungy: "Leadership is about doing what’s right — even when it’s hard, especially when it’s hard."

1 Question to Reflect On
Are you creating an environment where leadership is earned by action — or given based on talent?

Leadership isn’t about being loud.
It’s about being consistent, courageous, and committed. 👊

Until next time,
David Lovell
Founder of the F.O.C.U.S. System | Mental Performance Coach

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