Mastering focus, embracing failure, and creating a championship mindset

Hey, team, happy Sunday!

This week, we’re talking about laser focus, using failure as fuel, and building a championship mentality—whether you’re competing, supporting, or coaching.

Table of Contents

For Athletes: Train Your Focus Like a Skill

3 Ideas to Stay Locked In During Competition

  1. The best athletes don’t have more focus, they train it. Practice short bursts of deep focus in workouts to strengthen it.

  2. Mistakes happen. The fastest way to bounce back is to shift your focus to the next play, not the last one.

  3. What you focus on grows. If you constantly think about your weaknesses, they’ll feel bigger. Shift your focus to solutions, not problems.

2 Quotes to Keep You Locked In

  1. Steph Curry: "Every time I rise up, I have confidence that I'm going to make it."

  2. Abby Wambach: "Failure is not something to be ashamed of—it's something to be powered by."

1 Question to Reflect On
What’s one way you can improve your focus during pressure moments?

For Parents: Help Your Athlete Handle Failure the Right Way

3 Ways to Build Resilience After a Tough Game

  1. Separate identity from performance. Remind them that one bad game doesn’t mean they’re a bad player.

  2. Ask “What did you learn?” instead of “Why did you mess up?” Growth comes from reflection, not shame.

  3. Reframe failure as feedback. Every setback is just information on how to improve next time.

2 Quotes to Keep in Mind

  1. Serena Williams: "I've grown most not from my victories, but from my setbacks."

  2. Tim Grover: "The greats don’t think about failure. They think about progress."

1 Question to Reflect On
How do you talk about failure in your household—does it create fear or fuel?

For Coaches: Build a Championship Mentality in Your Team

3 Ideas to Develop a Growth Mindset in Athletes

  1. Don’t let them avoid challenges. Struggle isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s the process of getting better.

  2. Teach them to take responsibility for their results. No excuses, just adjustments.

  3. Set a standard of effort over outcomes. A strong mindset is built by valuing progress over perfection.

2 Quotes to Inspire Your Leadership

  1. Doc Rivers: "Average players want to be left alone. Good players want to be coached. Great players want to be told the truth."

  2. Pat Summitt: "Winning is fun... but winning is not the point. Wanting to win is the point."

1 Question to Reflect On
Are you coaching for short-term wins or long-term growth?

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Until next week, keep sharpening your mindset.
David Lovell
Mental Performance Coach | Creator of the F.O.C.U.S. System

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